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Sapphire gemstone being inspected


I’ve always been captivated by sapphires—the way they catch the light, holding a story in every facet. They’re not just gems; they’re tiny worlds, born from the earth’s depths, each with a hue that whispers its origin. As a lover of luxury that feels personal, I’ve spent countless hours poring over these stones, from the velvety blues of Kashmir to the sunset glow of a rare padparadscha. Let’s dive into the world of sapphires—their origins, the industry terms for their mesmerizing colors, and why they’ve stolen my heart.


Sotheby's Kashmir Sapphire Ring
Kashmir Sapphire Ring - Courtesy of Sotheby's

Sapphires, part of the corundum family, form under intense heat and pressure in metamorphic or igneous rocks, often alongside their sister gem, ruby. What sets them apart is their color—any corundum that isn’t red is a sapphire, and oh, the range is breathtaking. Blue is the classic, of course, but sapphires come in every shade of the rainbow, each hue tied to trace elements like iron, titanium, or chromium. Their origins span the globe, and where a sapphire comes from often shapes its character. Kashmir sapphires, from India’s Paddar Valley, are the stuff of legend—mined for an extremely brief period, mostly in the late 19th and early 20th centuries, they’re prized for a vivid, velvety blue that gem enthusiasts call “blue velvet.” I’ve seen one go for nearly $2 million at a Sotheby’s auction, and its sleepy, lustrous glow under any light is unforgettable. Sri Lanka, or Ceylon as it was once known, is another treasure trove, producing sapphires in a spectrum from cornflower blue to the rare padparadscha—a delicate pinkish-orange named after the Sinhalese word for lotus flower. Madagascar has emerged as a modern rival, with stones that mirror Ceylon’s quality, while Myanmar’s Mogok region offers intense blues that rival Kashmir’s depth.


The industry has its own language for these colors, and I love how poetic it can be. Blue sapphires are often described as “cornflower” for a soft, pure blue, or “royal blue” for a deeper, more saturated shade. Sri Lankan blues sometimes earn the term “peacock,” evoking the iridescent neck of the bird—a nod to their vibrant, shifting tones. Then there are the fancy sapphires, the non-blue beauties. Pink sapphires, colored by chromium, range from pale blush to deep fuchsia, with the richest hues sometimes mistaken for rubies in the U.S., where a minimum saturation is needed to call a stone a ruby. Yellow sapphires, thanks to iron, span from lemony pastels to vivid gold, often sourced from Sri Lanka. Green sapphires, a mix of iron and titanium, can look like soft mint or deep forest, while purple sapphires, from Sri Lanka or Madagascar, shimmer with lavender to violet tones. Teal sapphires, a blue-green blend, are a trendy favorite from places like Australia and Ethiopia, their name inspired by the bird’s bright feathers. And then there’s the padparadscha—its “lotus flower” hue a rare dance of pink and orange, mostly from Sri Lanka, though Madagascar and Vietnam have produced worthy contenders.


What I adore most is how sapphires carry their origins in their colors, like a passport stamped by the earth. A Montana sapphire might flash a silvery-green, while a Kashmir stone holds that velvety mystery. The industry often enhances these colors through heat treatment—a standard practice to deepen hues—but I’m drawn to the untreated ones, where nature’s hand is untouched. They’re rarer, pricier, and feel like a secret between you and the earth. Whether you’re drawn to a cornflower blue or a fiery padparadscha, there’s a sapphire that feels like yours. What’s your favorite shade? Live bright.


Gold bracelet resting on book


I’ve always believed gold jewelry deserves to shine as brightly as the moments you wear it for—whether it’s a pair of hoops that trailed me through Paris or a delicate chain that’s seen countless sunsets. But gold can lose its luster over time, dulled by oils, lotions, or just the wear of daily life. Cleaning it at home is easier than you’d think, and I’ve learned a few safe, foolproof methods to keep my pieces sparkling without risking damage. Let’s get your gold glowing again.


Toothbrushes in jar

First, gather your supplies: a small bowl, lukewarm water, a few drops of mild dish soap (like Dawn - I tell my friends if it's good enough for the ducks, it's good enough for me), a *soft* toothbrush, and a lint-free cloth. Avoid harsh chemicals like bleach or ammonia—they can tarnish gold, especially if it’s lower karat or mixed with alloys. Mix the water and soap until it’s slightly sudsy, then soak your jewelry for 10-15 minutes. I’ve found this works wonders on my gold bangles, loosening dirt and oils without any fuss.


Next, gently scrub with the toothbrush, focusing on crevices where grime hides—like around clasps or settings. Be soft; gold is prone to scratching, especially if it’s 18K or higher, which is purer and more delicate. If your piece has gemstones, double-check they’re not porous (like pearls or opals) or glued in—water can damage them. For those, a damp cloth and a quick wipe are safer. I learned this the hard way when I soaked a ring with a turquoise inlay and watched it dull overnight.


Rinse thoroughly under lukewarm water, making sure no soap residue lingers—it can leave a film. Then, pat dry with your lint-free cloth; I use a microfiber one for a streak-free finish. If your gold still looks lackluster, a quick polish with a jewelry cloth from Connoisseurs can bring back the gleam—just don’t overdo it, as polishing removes a tiny layer of metal over time.


The key is gentleness—gold may be timeless, but it’s not invincible. Store your pieces in a soft pouch to avoid scratches, and clean them every few months to keep them radiant. My gold chain looks as good as the day I bought it, ready for its next adventure.


How do you care for your treasures? Live bright.



Woman wearing diamond jewelry


I’ve always thought jewelry should be as unique as you are—a little piece of your story, sparkling for the world to see. That’s why I’m all in on custom jewelry with lab-grown diamonds and synthetic gems like sapphires and rubies. You don’t need to empty your wallet to wear something that’s entirely you, and unless someone’s got a gemology lab on speed dial, they’ll never know the difference. Here’s why this is the moment to let your vision run free.


Lab-grown diamonds are pure brilliance—real diamonds with the same chemical composition, just crafted in a lab, not mined. They’ve got the same fire, the same durability, but a price tag that lets you dream bigger. I’ve seen a lab-grown diamond ring from Brilliant Earth that could make even a seasoned jeweler do a double take. Synthetic gems, which have been around over a century, like created sapphires or rubies, bring the same magic—think a deep blue sapphire that catches the light like the ocean, or a ruby red as bold as your favorite heels, all without the jaw-dropping cost.


Customization is where you get to play. Picture a necklace with a lab-grown diamond centerpiece, framed by synthetic sapphires that match your eyes. Or a ring with a synthetic ruby that feels like it was made for your hand alone. I had a pair of earrings designed—lab-grown diamonds with a pop of synthetic ruby—and they’ve been my go-to for everything from quiet dinners to dazzling nights out. The best part? I didn’t have to break the bank to bring my vision to life.


This isn’t about cutting corners—it’s about creating without limits. Lab-grown diamonds and synthetic gems let you experiment with color, size, and design in ways natural stones might not. They’re also a more sustainable choice, which adds a little feel-good to the sparkle. So, grab a sketch, find a jeweler who gets you, and make something that’s yours alone. No one’s inspecting your gems under a loupe—they’re too busy admiring how they light you up. Unleash your vision and live bright.

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