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Woman wearing diamond jewelry


I’ve always thought jewelry should be as unique as you are—a little piece of your story, sparkling for the world to see. That’s why I’m all in on custom jewelry with lab-grown diamonds and synthetic gems like sapphires and rubies. You don’t need to empty your wallet to wear something that’s entirely you, and unless someone’s got a gemology lab on speed dial, they’ll never know the difference. Here’s why this is the moment to let your vision run free.


Lab-grown diamonds are pure brilliance—real diamonds with the same chemical composition, just crafted in a lab, not mined. They’ve got the same fire, the same durability, but a price tag that lets you dream bigger. I’ve seen a lab-grown diamond ring from Brilliant Earth that could make even a seasoned jeweler do a double take. Synthetic gems, which have been around over a century, like created sapphires or rubies, bring the same magic—think a deep blue sapphire that catches the light like the ocean, or a ruby red as bold as your favorite heels, all without the jaw-dropping cost.


Customization is where you get to play. Picture a necklace with a lab-grown diamond centerpiece, framed by synthetic sapphires that match your eyes. Or a ring with a synthetic ruby that feels like it was made for your hand alone. I had a pair of earrings designed—lab-grown diamonds with a pop of synthetic ruby—and they’ve been my go-to for everything from quiet dinners to dazzling nights out. The best part? I didn’t have to break the bank to bring my vision to life.


This isn’t about cutting corners—it’s about creating without limits. Lab-grown diamonds and synthetic gems let you experiment with color, size, and design in ways natural stones might not. They’re also a more sustainable choice, which adds a little feel-good to the sparkle. So, grab a sketch, find a jeweler who gets you, and make something that’s yours alone. No one’s inspecting your gems under a loupe—they’re too busy admiring how they light you up. Unleash your vision and live bright.


Red carpet steps


I’ve always said the red carpet is where jewelry gets to play the leading role, and 2025 has been a dazzling act so far. From the Grammys to the Oscars, this year’s trends are bold, personal, and a little rebellious—perfect for a night of glamour. Let’s dive into the jewelry trends that have stolen the spotlight, with a few A-listers showing us how it’s done.


First, the backward necklace is having a moment, and I’m here for it. At the 2025 Grammys, Sabrina Carpenter turned heads in a light blue JW Anderson gown, pairing it with a long Chopard necklace worn in reverse—a 50-carat stunner that draped down her back, as seen in this Harper’s Bazaar coverage. Margaret Qualley followed suit at the Oscars, her black velvet Chanel dress with a low back made even more striking by a Chanel necklace featuring a diamond center stone that sparkled against her spine.


Drop necklaces are another trend commanding attention. At the 2025 Oscars, Doja Cat wore a massive Messika yellow diamond drop necklace, its single gem dripping from a gold chain like liquid sunshine. Bruna Marquezine also embraced the style with a waterfall necklace of gradient-sized diamonds, while Raye matched her red gown with a sizzling ruby drop from Lorraine Schwartz, channeling Old Hollywood with a modern edge.


Statement brooches are making a comeback too, especially for the men. Oscar winner Adrien Brody turned heads at the Academy Awards with a feather-patterned brooch from Elsa Jin, pinned to his lapel—a subtle yet eye-catching detail. Finally, lab-grown diamonds are shining bright. Pamela Anderson wore a 68-carat lab-grown diamond necklace at the 2025 BAFTAs, paired with a custom Jacquemus gown, proving sustainable can be stunning. These trends are all about personality—whether it’s flipping a necklace or pinning a brooch, 2025 is for the bold. What’s your favorite red carpet look? Live bright.


Vintage & Antique Jewelry art as displayed by the NY Public Library


Vintage jewelry’s my soft spot—there’s nothing like a piece that’s lived a little, whispering stories of its past. I’ve rifled through velvet trays in London antique shops and haggled with dealers who’d rather lock their treasures away than let them go. But the real trick? Finding vintage that doesn’t just catch your eye—it fits you, body and soul. Here’s how I do it, straight from the hunt.


First, know what you love. A 1920s emerald choker dripping with Deco drama won’t click if your heart’s set on clean, modern lines. I learned that the hard way with a gaudy brooch that sat in my drawer for years—gorgeous, but not me. Next, size it right. Old pieces can play by their own rules—rings might run small, necklaces shorter than today’s cuts. Measure your wrist or neck before you fall for something; a tape measure saves heartbreak. I once snagged a gold filigree ring from 1stDibs—delicate, worn-in, like it’d been waiting decades for my finger. Perfect fit, pure luck.


Condition’s non-negotiable. Patina’s part of the charm—a soft scratch or two tells its tale—but cracked stones or loose settings? That’s a pass. Hold it to the light, give it a gentle shake; if it feels fragile, it won’t last your adventures. And don’t sleep on the story—ask for provenance. “This was a diplomat’s gift,” a seller once told me about a pearl strand. True or not, it made it mine. Oh, and haggle—politely, with a smile. You’d be surprised what a little charm unlocks.


The secret’s simple: vintage isn’t about what’s old—it’s about what’s yours. I’ve got a sapphire pendant that’s trailed me from Paris dinners to quiet mornings over coffee; it fits because it feels like an extension of me. Skip the impulse buys and trust your gut—when it’s right, you’ll know. Dig through those cases, ask the questions, and find the piece that’s been waiting for you. Live bright.




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